nothing quite like the realization
that, before even going to any, most trans spaces in ur ‘trans friendliest city’ have been rendered unsafe for you.
i just saw a posting for the trans march after party in toronto. two of the performers are shitty human beings and i can’t just go and support them. even indirectly.
and sure, i suppose i could always just go to the groups and remain as an anon blogger (as in maintain my online anonymity even within trans spaces in my city…)
but i’m not really the kind of person to sit around and just grin and bear it. and i can’t see how the benefits would outweigh the costs.