i dream of being possible

closing thoughts on a longish day

thing i did not like about today: facing up with some real fucking bullshit victim blaming while visiting with some people. Now, half the conversation was conducted in french concerning someone I didn’t know personally but two of the people in the conversation seemed to.

Essentially discussing about someone being in what sounds like an abusive situation, but hasn’t been able to get out, yet. and the people were basically saying “well, if they haven’t got out of the situation, some part of her accepts” or something equally full of shit.

shit like this is always pretty upsetting for me because… well. it is never just that fucking easy. never.