thing i don't get
i do get having a fair amount of existential angst about who you are. and what to call yourself (labels/names/etc. are important.
i dont understand being so insecure as to ask people who could never actually give you any appropriate guidance on a question of identity.
like asking a person who isn’t Indigenous to canada/usa about whether or not you have enough ancestry/community/cultural ties to call yourself two-spirit. Like.
this is the sort of thing you should really be sorting out on your own or with your respective community.
you are who you are.