see i am for somethign like cozy femme instead of hard femme (which is probably what i used to be)

because. i like that both (and not discounting that this is true of just femme) send a fairly unambiguous message that being femme

is all about ME

I just… remember that hard femme required a lot of tight clothes. I want stretch pants and loose-knit sweaters. Lol. With glitter eye liner.

I want to look glam and feel pretty

but also be cozy and comfy as absolutely possible

hahahhaha

and from these contradictory urges: my look will somehow emerge

and I will be fabulous as i could hope to be

while ready and able to get down to cuddle at the drop of a hat