just checked up white kid and this is a
just checked, up, white kid.
and this is a classic example of bullshit white thinking
a behaviour is abusive
a behaviour is a symptom of mental illness/disability
BUT NEVER BOTH
when reality is always more complex than this
whereas some behaviours are BOTH abusive AND symptoms of a mental illness
sometimes a person with a mental disability
can have a behaviour that is BOTH abusive AND a symptom of their disability.
it isn’t the behaviour that is one or the other
it is the person that is abusive.