just checked, up, white kid.

and this is a classic example of bullshit white thinking

EITHER

a behaviour is abusive

OR

a behaviour is a symptom of mental illness/disability

BUT NEVER BOTH

when reality is always more complex than this

whereas some behaviours are BOTH abusive AND symptoms of a mental illness

WORSE YET

sometimes a person with a mental disability

can have a behaviour that is BOTH abusive AND a symptom of their disability.

it isn’t the behaviour that is one or the other

it is the person that is abusive.