i guess i could clarify what i mean by community
in my mind
when i say community
i really mean your local, small, community. and if you live in a big city. there are maybe several different communities
i mean something like. more than just your group of friends
but smaller than, idk, the people who could fit at a fairly small club show.
i think a big failure of how many of us ( i did the same) conceptualize ‘community’ as this large, giant family who’ll kinda support you and whatever the fuck
but. it isn’t like that.
and we cause so much misery thinking that it will.