i feel somewhat conflicted about the whole phobia
I feel somewhat conflicted about the whole -phobia is ableism thing
like I get the argument
im just “meh” about it.
for a while I replaced phobia with hate. and it works.
but just meh.
what annoys me more is the general white disability approach of telling me what I can and.cant say.
I remember that white person who tried to call me out over it and I was like… fuck u. I have a debilitating phobia so go away.