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having a slight problem with being the only

Having a slight problem with being the only person, from what I’ve seen, to call out that post about “fetishizing women-presenting Asians” that goes on to talk about FAAB people.

It is a good post that says some worthwhile.

But I don’t like the cissexism. ‘Women-presenting’ =/= FAAB. Trying to be inclusive when you make this basic mistake works against that point.

Because this toxic fetishism is a problem for women-presenting maab people too (see ladyboys and sex tourism).

And, rereading the post… it makes continual reference to FAAB people in ways that implies all of them are women-presenting and/or women.

I have problems with this. A lot of them.