i dream of being possible

and the nerve stop including this in your

and the nerve…

‘stop including this in your lists of abusive behaviours!11!!’

u know.

these lists actually help people contextualize and understand their experiences

the helped me a lot when i first got on tumblr

because a lot of the fucked up shit my parents did still seemed normal to me

but now i have words and ways to name and articulate my experiences

but hey. why bother caring about victims/survivors of emotional abuse?