and the nerve stop including this in your
and the nerve…
‘stop including this in your lists of abusive behaviours!11!!’
these lists actually help people contextualize and understand their experiences
the helped me a lot when i first got on tumblr
because a lot of the fucked up shit my parents did still seemed normal to me
but now i have words and ways to name and articulate my experiences
but hey. why bother caring about victims/survivors of emotional abuse?