i dream of being possible

thing i don't get

i do get having a fair amount of existential angst about who you are. and what to call yourself (labels/names/etc. are important.

i dont understand being so insecure as to ask people who could never actually give you any appropriate guidance on a question of identity.

like asking a person who isn’t Indigenous to canada/usa about whether or not you have enough ancestry/community/cultural ties to call yourself two-spirit. Like.

this is the sort of thing you should really be sorting out on your own or with your respective community.

you are who you are.