see this thing on tumblr. some kind of game that emulates ur abusive paretns (no thanks. do not want. living through it was more than enough).

and some ppl saying that ‘gendered insults are teh worst’ which makes me feel some kind of way

:

like. gender policing is terrible, violent, and dehumanizing. is it the WORST though?

why do we need to have a WORST when it comes to parents abusing children?

how does a perception like this feed into the notion that being trans necessarily means

a life full of pain, misery, and suffering bc of ur gender

that ‘trans enough’ can be measured by how much u sufer bc of ur gender. idk.

bugs me, is all.

http://b-binaohan.tumblr.com/post/91567145049